Women's work and secrecy

Women's work has always been done in secret, and it's no different now we have the internet. I don't share client stories, mostly because it's too intimate but also some things are almost too wild to be believed!

The incredible synchronicities, the mirroring with nature, sometimes bleeding as soon as you walk through my door, the way the womb has her own way of enacting justice.

Masculine business practices demand we show results and evidence but what evidence can there be? Where there are wombs there will be pain, and life, and loss - if all I do is make the woman in front of me feel loved, if I can support her to find beauty and meaning in her journey then it is a job well done.

Womb healing doesn't mean we skip off into the sunset with no symptoms finally enjoying the freedom of a man. Sometimes things get more painful before they are ready to release. Sometimes you meet me after the descent into the Underworld. Often during. Sometimes right before.

I've become reluctant to share healing spaces online even with permission because the longer I do this work the more strict my energetic hygiene is. It has to be strict or I know I won't last in this line of work.

Healing work, for me, means a kind of isolation. When a lot of my clients are space holders themselves it's a relief for them to come to me because they won't see me in their usual spaces.

It is oddly a blessing that these restrictions have really helped my creativity to flourish. For all the downsides of social media, when you can't share what you do and have to share who you are, it's an endless journey of self-expression.

With love x